My boyfriend and I are both fond of Civilization 4 and would like to play against each other online, however he uses ISA Server which doesn't seem to like working with Directplay, so he can't host the games, and I haven't had any sucess hosting them myself on my DW7000 modem. There aren't any options for port forwarding with the modem as far as I know, but can anyone else think of a solution to this? Either on my end or his (He's using ISA Server 2004 btw). It's fairly annoying as I'm not a big gamer so it's rare for me to find one that I like, much less one that he likes as well and it's something we'd like to do together. Any help would be greatly appreciated.