Has your pc been "tweaked" MTU settings adjusted?
If not;
dslreports.com
-test & tools
-doctor tcp
-2nd file from top ending in exe
-open not save
307824 default
-yes default
-yes
-yes 1492
-select network adapter you are using to connect
restart comp for settings to take effect
I have been able to use a dial up modem on the FiOS service. Your fathers Dell sould have a PCMCIA slot, all techs carry these wireless cards and wireless routers. Just a thought
DSL filters will cause an echo on a FiOS line, make sure you have removed all of the DSL filters. There are several cordless phones and ans. machines that are not compat. with FiOS.