Think i found out what the problem is (kind of)
I took out my second graphics card and everything works great.
This is telling me i would think that it is either the voltage from the psu to the cards, one card is bad, the motherboard is having problems running 2 cards..( made for 4 cards) or some setting in the bios is making it crash while both are hooked up.
Just a few thoughts about it hopefully with more testing it can be resolved.
Played cod mw2 for a few hours no crash so far. Rebooted many times no crash on reboot. Leaving pc on for the nite see what happens.