u know what i don't see anything about philippines in the countries listed...
https://www.moneybookers.com/app/help.pl?s=fees
sounds pretty fishy to me...and almost every country has a fee to take ur money out...
i would tell him in no uncertain terms...not to pay me that way...and close my occount there...there is no reason that he can't pay u thru ur bank...or mail u a check
this looks like some sort of scam to me...wow...i dunno...that's just my opinion